[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.kocov.cz\/veci-o-kterych-pred-detmi-pomlcte\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.kocov.cz\/veci-o-kterych-pred-detmi-pomlcte\/","headline":"V\u011bci, o kter\u00fdch p\u0159ed d\u011btmi poml\u010dte","name":"V\u011bci, o kter\u00fdch p\u0159ed d\u011btmi poml\u010dte","description":"Jako dosp\u011bl\u00ed m\u00e1te tendenci rozeb\u00edrat s va\u0161\u00edm prot\u011bj\u0161kem v\u0161echno, co je pot\u0159eba a chcete to s n\u00edm probrat. Jestli v\u0161ak ve va\u0161em rozhovoru...","datePublished":"2019-01-03","dateModified":"2019-01-03","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.kocov.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.kocov.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/505fff4dce96a6fd9b2c3bab9d6ad2c90e3ce4a797f024fc5ad345c11f66ba90?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/505fff4dce96a6fd9b2c3bab9d6ad2c90e3ce4a797f024fc5ad345c11f66ba90?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"kocov.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.kocov.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a338856_w2489_t1551617008.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.kocov.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a338856_w2489_t1551617008.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.kocov.cz\/veci-o-kterych-pred-detmi-pomlcte\/","wordCount":596,"articleBody":"Jako dosp\u011bl\u00ed m\u00e1te tendenci rozeb\u00edrat s va\u0161\u00edm prot\u011bj\u0161kem v\u0161echno, co je pot\u0159eba a chcete to s n\u00edm probrat. Jestli v\u0161ak ve va\u0161em rozhovoru nejste sami a m\u00e1te ve va\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtomnosti n\u011bkolik p\u00e1r\u016f u\u0161\u00ed, kter\u00e9 pat\u0159\u00ed va\u0161im d\u011btem, m\u011bli byste si d\u00e1vat velk\u00fd pozor na to, co a jak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem p\u0159ed nimi vyslov\u00edte.I kdy\u017e si toti\u017e mysl\u00edte, \u017ee v\u00e1m nerozum\u00ed nebo dokonce neposlouchaj\u00ed, opak je pravdou a v\u0161echno, co zaslechnou, si m\u016f\u017eou vylo\u017eit po sv\u00e9m a t\u0159eba se t\u00edm i tr\u00e1pit.\tH\u00e1dky s partneremJist\u011b, \u017ee se \u010das od \u010dasu nevyhnete tomu, \u017ee se s partnerem pust\u00edte do h\u00e1dky a konfliktu i v dob\u011b, kdy m\u00e1te kolem sebe va\u0161e d\u011bti. P\u0159\u00edval emoc\u00ed v\u0161ak nelze m\u00edt zcela pod kontrolou a mnohdy \u0159eknete i n\u011bco, \u010deho trpce litujete a bohu\u017eel nem\u016f\u017eete vz\u00edt zp\u011bt. Va\u0161e d\u011bti to v\u0161ak sly\u0161\u00ed a skute\u010dnost, \u017ee ve v\u00e1s p\u0159evl\u00e1dal vztek nad rozumem, jim moc nepom\u016f\u017ee. M\u016f\u017eou pova\u017eovat v\u00e1\u0161 konflikt jako psychickou bolest, kter\u00e1 jim d\u00e1 na zn\u00e1most, \u017ee mezi v\u00e1mi nefunguje v\u0161echno tak, jak by m\u011blo.Stavy, kter\u00e9 si d\u011bti neum\u011bj\u00ed vylo\u017eit logicky a h\u00e1dky, kter\u00e9 se ve va\u0161\u00ed dom\u00e1cnosti vyskytuj\u00ed \u010dast\u011bji, ne\u017e by m\u011bly, m\u016f\u017eou va\u0161im d\u011btem vyvolat pocity smutku, deprese nebo i stavy \u00fazkosti.\tPomluvy na denn\u00edm po\u0159\u00e1dkuJist\u011b zn\u00e1te ten pocit, kdy se mus\u00edte va\u0161emu partnerovi sv\u011b\u0159it s t\u00edm, jak v\u00e1s n\u011bkdo v pr\u00e1ci, v okruhu va\u0161ich zn\u00e1m\u00fdch nebo rodiny, p\u0159iv\u00e1d\u00ed do \u0161\u00edlenstv\u00ed a vy m\u00e1te pot\u0159ebu \u2013 pomluvit ho od hlavy a\u017e k pat\u011b. P\u0159ed va\u0161imi d\u011btmi, byste se v\u0161ak takov\u00e9mu zp\u016fsobu chov\u00e1n\u00ed m\u011bli vyhnout.Je nepat\u0159i\u010dn\u00e9 rozeb\u00edrat slabosti ostatn\u00edch a vyt\u00fdkat jim, \u017ee jsou odli\u0161n\u00ed a d\u011blaj\u00ed chyby.Va\u0161imi n\u00e1zory m\u016f\u017eete zna\u010dn\u011b ovlivnit va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b v tom, jak se k dan\u00e9mu \u010dlov\u011bku, kter\u00e9ho denn\u011b pomlouv\u00e1te bude chovat a i d\u00edky v\u00e1m, ho odstr\u010d\u00ed na vedlej\u0161\u00ed kolej.A pokud se bude jednat o rodinn\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edslu\u0161n\u00edka, bude to m\u00edt negativn\u00ed n\u00e1sledky pro celou rodinu.\tFinan\u010dn\u00ed probl\u00e9myT\u011bm se mnoho dom\u00e1cnost\u00ed \u2013 bohu\u017eel nevyhne. Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s jednou poc\u00edt\u00ed jistou finan\u010dn\u00ed ztr\u00e1tu a obdob\u00ed, kdy je pen\u011bz v rodin\u011b m\u00e1lo. Pokud se v\u0161ak situace u\u017e del\u0161\u00ed dobu dr\u017e\u00ed na bod\u011b mrazu, va\u0161e d\u011bti byste t\u00edm zat\u011b\u017eovat rozhodn\u011b nem\u011bli.Nem\u016f\u017eete p\u0159ed nimi mluvit o tom, jak jich nejste schopn\u00ed dostate\u010dn\u011b finan\u010dn\u011b zabezpe\u010dit nebo to, \u017ee m\u00e1te finan\u010dn\u00ed pot\u00ed\u017ee. Je va\u0161\u00ed povinnost\u00ed chovat se jako dosp\u011bl\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed se postaraj\u00ed o to, \u017ee daj\u00ed d\u011btem poc\u00edtit, \u017ee jsou zabezpe\u010den\u00e9.\u2022\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 D\u00e1vejte si pozor na j\u00edzdu v aut\u011b.V n\u011bm se toti\u017e nej\u010dast\u011bji rozeb\u00edraj\u00ed nevhodn\u00e1 t\u00e9mata, kter\u00e1 d\u011btem do u\u0161\u00ed nepat\u0159\u00ed a nem\u011bli byste jich nimi zat\u011b\u017eovat. V\u017edy si ud\u011blejte \u010das na to, \u0159e\u0161it d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v\u011bci pouze v soukrom\u00ed.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.2\/5 - (5 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"V\u011bci, o kter\u00fdch p\u0159ed d\u011btmi poml\u010dte","item":"https:\/\/www.kocov.cz\/veci-o-kterych-pred-detmi-pomlcte\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]